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You'd get better answers if you gave more details about your phone and the SMS app you are using.
What you describe is the normal way SMS/MMS texting works for everyone so if it's not working for you then there is something wrong.
Are you getting the links from everyone who sends you pictures or just one person? The problem might be the way the other person is sending it to you.